When You Know It’s Over… But You Still Have Hope

Jun 17, 2025

When You Know It’s Over… But You Still Have Hope
by Leanna Lapidus

You know deep down it’s not working.
You’ve cried the same tears over the same conversations.
You’ve convinced yourself, maybe this time it will be different.
But deep down, your nervous system knows the truth: you’re not safe in this connection.

Toxic relationships don’t always look toxic from the outside.
Sometimes, they look like longing. Hope. Obsession.
They keep you waiting for breadcrumbs and calling it a meal.

You keep asking yourself:
• Why doesn’t he love me the way I need?
• What’s wrong with me?
• Why do I stay—even when it hurts?

This creates a painful cycle of self-betrayal.
It keeps you stuck between the hope of change and the reality of repeated pain.
And the longer you stay, the deeper the doubt and damage.


This Isn’t Just About Him—It’s About You.

Your subconscious is trying to resolve something it didn’t get in childhood:
Approval. Safety. Validation. A sense of being wanted.

So even though you know he isn’t right for you,
your inner child still believes:
“If I can just get it right this time, I’ll finally feel enough.”

That’s the trap. And that’s why leaving a toxic relationship isn’t just a decision—
it’s a process of reprogramming the root beliefs that keep you tied to pain.


How My Method Helps You Break the Cycle

Through my Lapidus Root Release™ Method, we go deep into the subconscious to:

✔️ Heal the emotional wound that keeps you chasing love in unsafe places
✔️ Release the belief that you’re not worthy of healthy love
✔️ Rebuild self-trust so you don’t second-guess yourself every time you set a boundary

This isn’t about talk therapy.
It’s about finally changing the story inside—so you stop reliving it in your relationships.


You Are Not Hard to Love.

You’ve just been stuck in a cycle that was never yours to begin with.

Let’s break it down together.

📞 Book a free clarity call with me and let’s talk through where you’re stuck and what healing could look like.

👉🌀 Book a Free Clarity Call
📥 Or Download My Free Guide → “7 Thought Reframes to Calm Anxiety Fast”

You don’t have to keep reliving the same heartbreak.
You don’t have to keep wondering, “What’s wrong with me?”

There’s nothing wrong with you.
You’re just overdue for healing—at the root.

And that’s exactly where we begin.

LEANNA LAPIDUS, Anxiety, Trauma & Addiction Recovery Specialist

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